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By Joseph A. Cohen, Caregiver
Five years ago, we were leaving the Metropolitan Opera House after attending a performance of our favorite opera, Mozart's "Cosi Fon Tutti". Suddenly Sonia's right leg gave way-she seemed confused-then she said her right arm was numb. Within fifteen minutes she was in the hospital. After an all-night vigil, during which I was in shock and frightened, I realized that our lives would never be the same. After spending nine weeks in hospitals and rehab centers, we left Rusk Rehab (NYU Medical Center) in a daze. Though five and one-half weeks of therapy did much to restore her speech, clarity of mind, and partial use of her right hand and leg, we wondered, "How will she cope with life within this new format? Will our new daily routine be easy to live with?" Sonia suffered a massive stroke at the age of 77, but overcoming emotional and physical obstacles was no picnic-it could have been easier. That is why we are noting some thoughts on the subject that emerged from our experiences. Perhaps those reading this might learn how to survive a stroke better and lead a more fruitful life. To begin with, it must be understood that, although each stroke is different, and while with different survivors there must be different approaches, some aspects apply to all. The following suggestions enumerate "tasks" interspersed with what I call "pearls" that one may use to lighten the life of the stroke survivor and the caregiver. |
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An ambulette delivered us home one cold, bleak morning. A wooden ramp was in place over which her wheelchair was rolled from the driveway to the back door. This was the first of many adaptations we learned to make to prepare for her homecoming. The house was warm, well-lit and sparkling clean. A festive meal was ready for her return and music was playing-music she loved. She was moved to tears as she eyed the paintings and photographs on the wall as well as the entire room. Everything looked as it did before the stroke. It was good to be home.